Learning to love myself by loving more than one partner.
I came to polyamory, not quite by accident and not entirely intentionally either. We had been married for over 3 decades and wanted to spice things up a little in our marriage. So, we thought we’d start swinging!
We loved each other. We wanted to stay together, and we were bored and wanted to explore interests that we didn’t share. And we were a little lazy, if I’m honest.
Hubby started to date a friend of ours, and they wanted to see what it would be like to start a romantic relationship. We didn’t know what we didn’t know, so they jumped in feet first! It took me another 5 months to go on my first date, and we’ve never looked back.
Many years and lovers later, we’ve settled into a style of polyamory called, “Kitchen Table Polyamory,” KTP for short.
One of my first TikTok videos about Metas
Metas are the partners of my partners. They have been wonderful and tortuous! We have all been there! The work is in the communication.
I have written a lot of erotica.
I have a book coming out soon that was created for women.
It’s a story of my journey, told through the erotic essays I’ve written, the pictures I modeled for and the stories behind the stories.
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